Kiss and Make Up

I think I have already posted about my petty quarrel with hubby but not in details. Would you believe that we had this petty quarrel just once in our 11 years of being together? It is because we never stopped communicating and letting each other know what in our minds and how we feel on certain things.

I remember, that quarrel happened a few weeks after we moved to our house. I was so hot-tempered because I was tired from office works and when I got home what welcomed me was a messy place. I had no choice but to clean everything. What pissed me off was, hubby was in the house the whole day because it was his rest day but instead of helping me by de-cluttering, he was just watching his favorite show on TV. Grrrrr! Yes it was his day off. He worked from Monday to Friday so he deserves some rest to recuperate. But how about me, am I not working as well? Am I not getting tired? But instead of telling him how I feel, I was just stomping my feet and making indirect remarks while cleaning the house. He asked me why but I answered nothing yet I continued to stomp my feet. He got annoyed so he left the house without saying anything. I thought I would sleep alone for the first time after we got married but he came back in just a few minutes. He asked if we can talk and so we did. I told him what I feel and vice versa. We embraced, kissed and made up and promised to talk things over before it could lead us to something else. That was our first and last quarrel.

Quarrel helps in keeping the excitement throughout the relationship. That is if you will get back together. Be it a big fight or petty quarrel, getting back together is always a wonderful thing. When you do make up, the kisses, hugs and cuddles are sweeter.