A Parent’s View About Sex Education in Schools

The issue of sex education in school remains controversial because of the criticisms both from political and religious groups who claim that sex education is against “Catholicism”. These groups may not understand that in sex education it is the biology, the consequences of teenage marriage, unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases and the likes, are what being discussed and not the “act” per se.

I remember we had Population Education when I was in junior high…that was 1987 if I remember it right . Indeed, it was very educational. It didn’t give me curiosity or the urge, but instead it helped me develop self-respect and moral responsibility. I got married a little late (28 years old) and all of my siblings got married on their mid-twenties because of sex education both from school (only me) and my Mom. Mom is liberal minded and she answered all the things we wanted to know about sexuality. It helped us to be prepared physiologically, psychologically and sociologically thus no teenage marriage and unwanted pregnancies in the family.

I am Catholic since birth but I don’t see any reason why sex education should not be implemented in schools. As a parent, I am pro to sex education but still it would depend on the child’s age. I am not in favor for it to be integrated in elementary subjects like what Department of Education has been strongly pushing before as it will take away the children’s innocence. So when I learned that sex education was finally integrated to high school curriculum in the country, I was one of those happy parents.

Still, sex education should not be left alone in school. As parents we should work hand in hand with the school to bridge the gap on sex education by being prepared to our children’s questions about sexuality and by feeding them accurate answers.


  1. nuts says:

    thumbs up! we have the same view when it comes to sex education to be implemented but of course parents should play a big role and not leave this subject to school alone.

  2. Cheryl Cohen Greene says:

    Dear Rossel,
    I’m pleased to read what you’ve said about Sex Ed., in schools with one caveat. Until there are Sex Education teachers who have had a non-bias Sex Ed. training, our kids will be exposed to judgements. I’m of the belief that parents themselves should get current non-biased sex information, from Siecus.org. They are an amazing resource. Depending on the childs age, small amounts of informed information is enough. As they get older more information can be found. Telling our children when we don’t have the answer is being honest and will be appreciated. Also, letting them know their question is valid and you’re going to do some research to find the answer and get back to them with it. This kind of respect for them will help create an honest,
    open, trust between parent and child. A great book for Parents and their soon to be teen age child is, Our Changing Bodies. I suggest parents get it and read it, then pass it on to their child. Probably by the age of 11 or 12. With Respect ~~~ Cheryl

  3. Sex is always a sensitive subject, and is not for the faint of heart. Yes, children do need sex education, but we parents must be there for the extra guidance.

  4. chubskulit says:

    I absolutely agree with you Tokaya, mas late pala ako nagasawa kesa sayo lol, I was 30 na kasi, last trip na hehehe.. Sensya ka na at madalang na ako makavisit, summer is a very busy season for us here.

  5. half log siding says:

    sex education is important for children.thanks for sharing this important topic.i like your post.

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