I think I have already posted about my petty quarrel with hubby but not in details. Would you believe that we had this petty quarrel just once in our 11 years of being together? It is because we never stopped communicating and letting each other know what in our minds and how we feel on certain things.
I remember, that quarrel happened a few weeks after we moved to our house. I was so hot-tempered because I was tired from office works and when I got home what welcomed me was a messy place. I had no choice but to clean everything. What pissed me off was, hubby was in the house the whole day because it was his rest day but instead of helping me by de-cluttering, he was just watching his favorite show on TV. Grrrrr! Yes it was his day off. He worked from Monday to Friday so he deserves some rest to recuperate. But how about me, am I not working as well? Am I not getting tired? But instead of telling him how I feel, I was just stomping my feet and making indirect remarks while cleaning the house. He asked me why but I answered nothing yet I continued to stomp my feet. He got annoyed so he left the house without saying anything. I thought I would sleep alone for the first time after we got married but he came back in just a few minutes. He asked if we can talk and so we did. I told him what I feel and vice versa. We embraced, kissed and made up and promised to talk things over before it could lead us to something else. That was our first and last quarrel.
Quarrel helps in keeping the excitement throughout the relationship. That is if you will get back together. Be it a big fight or petty quarrel, getting back together is always a wonderful thing. When you do make up, the kisses, hugs and cuddles are sweeter.
Even i will not read the whole post just read the title i know what happened at the end hehe. Para ka namang ako hindi na kumibo but stamping hahhaa…Happy CC!
haha..tayong mga babae mahilig sa stamping feet at silent mode noh? hirap e spell..(wink)
my entry here
http://alwaysfilipina.blogspot.com/2011/03/sakal-sakali-saklolo-wahaha.html
ay ang sweet naman. 1 time lang kayong nag quarrel, 11 years na kayong magkasama. Wow naman! well, kasi nga kung lagi naman kayongnag ko communicate di ba? be honest sa isa’t isa,. wag mag dabog agad, hehehe. saka kapag tinanong wag sasagot ng “wala, hmp!” kasi walang ma re resolve. Good for you Rossel.
Hi Tita! Following your blog.
i think our post is somehow similar, lol! but you are right, the best part after a quarrel is the idea that you got through it…
sounds alike to our petty quarrels…communication talaga is the key…sana meron kme non, hehe 😀 ako kasi pag nainis na hindi na nagsasalita, nagdadabog na lang…i like your hubby’s character when he initiates to talk…sige, magmahalan lang kayo ha 🙂
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Hay, sabi nga ng matatanda, “boys will be boys.” Sigh…
I think guys are really like that. I have given up on the idea that one day, they’ll pick up after their mess but that will just be a dream. I just let out a sigh and shrug my shoulders. Ayaw ko na kasi ma-kunsume 😉
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i followed this blog of yours too and the other blogs of yours hihi
well, sa mga ganyang sitwasyon hindi ka nag-iisa sister ahaha
Hay naku sis debates and arguments are just a way of life sa ming mag asawa hehehheh…kaya nga sabi ni hubby..we need more years together kasi madami pa kaming mga dapat pag discussionan…its our 18 yrs wedding anniversary today and until now we are debating how we lasted this long hahahha
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Kami madaming petty quarrel. Hahaha!! I think that’s normal in any relationship.
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hahaha!!! dabog queen? LOL
pero talaga naman, 11 years and 1 time lang… ang saya! kame hindi na mabilang eh…
wow, achievement to.. hahahah… kami naman asot pusa di na mabilang yung away lol.. dropping by mommy sel..
ayay, buti pa kau te…once lang…nyahaha….kami we like to bicker…but we are working on it…ako kasi laging may pasimuno…lol!
Hahaha! That sounds like something I would do. hehehe.
Anyway, I’m following you back from WFBC. Sorry it took so long. Been so hectic lately. Hope all is well with you. Take care!
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