After getting what we want, we do not forget to thank and give each other a kiss. And if I am that satisfied and in a romantic mood, there will be a reward that is a lot more than a simple kiss…wink!
What do I do when I want something? It is just simple. When I want something material, I ask for it. I tell Rhonnel straight what I want whether a new bag or a blouse, etc. He does not know what I want so I have to tell him. No sweet gestures before that. No need to do that because he allows me to buy whatever I want as long as we can afford it and still within the budget.When I want him to fix something in the house, I ask him nicely but I am guilty of not giving him reasonable time frame to get it done. When I ask him to fix this or that, he usually answers me, “Okay, I will do it this weekend”. It is because weekends are his only free time. But the OC me who cannot wait for the weekend anymore and wants it done the same day will end up doing the task myself. Rhonnel hates that especially if the task involves lifting of heavy furniture. He would say, “Why can’t you wait?” Yes, that’s also one of my negative traits aside from my OCness, I cannot wait. If I want something and I have the money, then I will buy it now. If I want something to be done and I can do it, then I will do it now.How about hubby? If Rhonnel wants something and he knows we can afford it, he will simply ask me “Can I buy this?” but if he wants something expensive, his dialogue would be “I saw it on TV. It is beautiful. It has this, it has that…bla…bla…bla” with sweetness on his voice. Yes, he is trying to convince me…ehehe.