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Supporting and Backing Each Other Up

Supporting and backing each other up are giving us strength.  Rhonnel and I are not just helping each other financially but most especially physically, emotionally, spiritually. This way, we serve as motivation to each other.

Sometimes there are things that I can not do because of my lack in skills especially on computer and other technical matters. Rhonnel is always there to supply that skill and if he is the one who does not have the needed skill then I supply it. We share household tasks and I help him if he has some paper works to finish at home. When the task is over, we give each other compliments, hugs and kisses.

If both of us are not sure of a decision or how to deal with a situation, we ask each others opinion and talk about it. It boosts my confidence every time he says “I need your help” or asks me “What is the best to do?” It just shows that my opinion is that important for him and I love him more for that.

I know Rhonnel from head to foot so I know exactly when he is feeling down or struggling for something. I am always beside him to lift him up. Most of the time when it is office matters, I can not do anything to help him, but I give him encouraging words and massage. And if it is me who is down or not feeling well, he would volunteer to do more of the household tasks. He will also give me some massage and will make me a cup of coffee. Awww, so sweet! These simple emotional supports always make big difference. Just being there to help or listen is like magic that can erase all those worries, negative thoughts, bad feelings and uplifts one’s spirit.

12 Comments

  1. That's what husband and wife are supposed to be, complementing each other and not competing against each other. Only when both have that perfect symbiotic relationship can their marriage effectively work and last. Thanks for the positive post. God bless you all always.

  2. that's how marriage is all about, you're not just gaining a husband or wife, you're gaining a long time mates as well!

    Good day Ros

  3. Well said naman Mommy Rossel ah. Di ba napakasarap ng feeling na our spouses value our opinions about something? I love it when Rodney asks for my thoughts about something, hay! the more na napapamahal sila sa atin, feeling kasi natin ang haba ng ating hair, hehehe..

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